hung up...

Sometimes I wonder how can a person get so hung up on their ex that even after 2 years of breaking up, they can still send messages to remind that person of themselves?? Don't they realise that they can become a nuisance?? especially if that person has already moved on to other relationships?

Piggy's dodo is a classic case... that is not just reminding. That is outright harrassment, cos it's abusive and rude... besides, what has dodo's issue and seeking closure with his wife got to do with piggy? Afterall, he was the one who snuck around and got the wife preggy behind piggy's back when they were still together. Piggy gave it up eventually and got on with her life! Now this stupid dodo wants her to return stuff that he gave her as PRESENTS and even the money they spent together on dates 2 years ago... for goodness sake. His son is already 1 year plus... get a life and get on with it!

Well... same goes for BL, KK's ex. They've already broken up for more than a year... and KK was the one who initiated it (that's what I found out) after he had started the relationship with me and sort of stabilised in it. Although he still saw her on and off because they belong to the same tennis kaki group, but there wasn't anything else going on. Even then, she kept msging him on and off with msgs like "I miss you very hard", "Been seeing you in my dreams" and things like "ms loon choon loves mr xiang xiang". I don't know whether to be angry or simply pity her... cos i know that he never acknowledged nor replied any of those messages. Besides, BL is no longer young (she's older than me).... though KK was her first bf, it's about time she get on with her life isn't it? Well... 28 March is coming and I can forsee she will send him another one of those msg cos this was the date when they first got together in 2003. It's not that KK didn't make it clear to her... but she just wants to hang on... i just wish that one day she'll wake up and hang up that idea.... sigh....